Throughout life, you encounter several different types of women on the dating scene. Some you build meaningful and lasting relationships with, others are a toxic train wreck waiting to happen. Some guys don’t see the warning signs until the crazy in her can no longer be contained. While there are always exceptions to the rule, if you are looking for something serious, this is my personal field guide to the several different types of women you could encounter and the level of caution you should take.
The Type: The Possessive Girl
Level: Avoid at all Costs
The Possessive Girl reflects to much on past negative relationship experiences. She will use those past negative experiences to judge her current relationship and could eventually start making assumptions that aren’t true. As a result, she might think you are screwing around with every female that looks in your general direction. She might want to check your phone and basically interrogate you about everything you do when she isn’t with you
The Type: The Woman who Can’t Stop Talking about her Ex Boyfriend
Level: Flag
This one is easy to spot because it happens when you first meet them. It’s one thing if you ask about an ex, its another thing when for no reason she keeps bring him up. When I see this, it is often a sign that the person truly isn’t over there ex and shouldn’t be dating in the first place. However, if you are the type of guy who is trying to capitalize on someones vulnerability for an easy lay, this is your girl. If you are looking for something with meaning, walk away.
The Type: The Lush
Level: Flag
The lush isn’t exactly a party girl. There is a difference. We will get to that shortly. The lush is someone who drinks heavy on a very regular basis. I’m not talking 1-2 drinks a night. She drinks more like 4-8 drinks a night, every night. Lushes have good and often sometimes stressful careers and fall under the “functioning alcoholic” category. She can support herself. Her drinking habits don’t seem like an issue at first since everything appears under control and she presents herself like a lady, but she could very well come off the hinges at any moment.
The Type: The Religious Nut
Level: Avoid at all Costs
Nothing against religion, but to much of anything is bad for you. When everything is god this and god that it’s definitely a sign that something is a little “off” in the head. You can easily spot these kinds of people. Just look into there eyes. If they appear dead, black and soulless, run!
The Type: The Party Girl
Level: Flag
I guess it all depends how old you are and what you are looking for. If you are looking for a fun time that won’t amount to anything then you might want to seek out a party girl. The party girl is similar to the lush. She drinks a lot. Goes out with her girlfriends and wakes up not remembering her night. However, the the party girl is usually younger than the lush and hasn’t established a career yet. She is often spacey and bubbly but can potentially turn violent when intoxicated.
The Type: The Bisexual Woman
Level: Flag
I know. I know. Every guy likes the idea of having a girl who wants to bring another girl into the bedroom, but we all know if this scenario plays out it will most likely end the relationship down the road. Those who can handle and tame this kind of relationship, I give you all the credit in the world but dealing with one women is difficult enough.
The Type: The Girl with Daddy Issues
Level: Avoid at all costs
This one typically has me running for the hills every time. A women who grew up with a shittie father or without any positive male influence in her life is typically a girl you don’t want to be involved with. These types of women often look for love in all the wrong places and push aside any good guy that might be coming there way. There is a small precent of women with daddy issues who turn it around, but I feel like that percent is so small. It’s best to just avoid.
The Type: The Leech
Level: Avoid at all costs
The leech is a woman who latches onto a guy only because he kisses her ass and does everything for her. She has no physical attraction to the guy. Hell, she probably doesn’t even respect him. She is just using him because she knows he will pay for everything and she enjoys the attention. She will eventually grow bored of the guy and move onto the next person.
The Type: The Gold Digger
Level: Avoid at all costs
The gold digger is similar to the leech. However, while the leech targets anyone who will do anything for her and feeds off the attention, The gold digger isn’t independent at all and only targets people with money. Her goal is to survive as comfortably as possible with minimal effort.
The Type: Still Married
Level: Avoid at all costs
It doesn’t matter what she tells you. Even if she says she is separated and going through a divorce, it’s not worth the hassle and potential headaches.
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The Type: The Women Who Has Slept With Your Friend or Friends
Level: Avoid at all costs
I never have, but I don’t think I would feel comfortable being in a relationship and “planting my flag” in a spot where a friend has and if she is the type that has been with more than one of your friends then its more than likely she is trying to make someone in your circle of friends jealous. Run, your friends are more important.
The Type: The Self Saboteur
Level: Avoid at all costs (might not know until its to late)
These are women who are capable of finding good men, but when they do and things start to get serious, they don’t know how to handle it. As a result, they blow up for no reason when everything seems perfect and end the relationship.
The Type: The Drama Inducer
Level: Avoid at all costs
This is just a headache. There are actually people out there who always feel the need to start drama on a regular basis. They live and thrive off it. Me personally, I love drama. It’s entertaining as hell, but not when its mine.
Well, that’s my list folks. I can think of various other sub groups that work off of most of these but this is my basic list. Beware, you never know what you might just come across.
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Do you think girls who push nice guys aside do it because they didn’t have a good father?
That could certainly be a factor! I also think a girl might push a nice guy away because she has been treated poorly on several occasions & that’s how her brain is now wired and what she expects. Then a nice guy comes along and it messes with her head because its behavior that isn’t the norm for her. It’s a total curve-ball. Like her brain is saying “wait, whats this? I’m not use to this. I can’t handle it. I’m out” It’s very sad. I notice that can change with age though. A person can be in only so many toxic relationships before they realize “hey I deserve to be with a nice person”
Ugh, that sucks so much. Thanks for the insight, I never thought of it that way